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Acquaintance via Letters: what one should know
Every person in the world strives to find his soul mate with whom he could be happy. But sometimes, due to different reasons, it becomes very difficult. And no wonder that people seek help. For many people the Internet and dating sites become a lifeboat in the stormy ocean of life.
Acquaintance via the Internet starts with letters. And it depends on the letters whether the relationships would be developed further or end without going to the new level.
In order to succeed in the most complicated period of the relationship making process with Russian women via dating sites, men’s letters should meet certain criteria.
First of all, Russian women love outgoing and strong men. And so first of all, between the lines they tend to find out these qualities in their mate.
In order to make that impression a man must always take the initiative, that is, he must always write first. It is important to write a new letter even when the reply from a woman is delayed. It isn’t necessary to pass the baton to the woman in communication; it is good to be moderately persistent. But you can’t be obtrusive; 2-3 letters a week are enough to keep your pen pal’s interest and not be annoying.
A man should set the tone of communication in the letters. The style of letter writing should be polite, delicate, gentle and open.
It is not acceptable for a man to hide something about himself. Excessive secrecy leads to mistrust. But at the same time, a man should not talk about any topics that can be unpleasant for a woman, such as discussion of his ex-girlfriends or his weaknesses or problems in life.
A man must always show interest towards a woman and her inner world. Women, by nature, are more sensual and emotional that men, so it is important to understand her emotions.
A man will always win by paying attention to the feelings of a woman!
Therefore, a man should first ask a woman questions to get to know her better. But after the formal questions about what a woman likes to do and where she lives, it’s necessary to move to the level of communication that happens between people who are close enough. A long pause after formal questions and answers may be interpreted by a woman as a lack of interest in her as a person and a woman. And she may lose interest.