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Marriage is the foundation upon which Islam was built. Without believing in marriage a person cannot be a true Muslim, whether he gets married or not. Marriage is the means whereby the Muslim Ummah grew strong. The preservation is chastity is of primary concern of Islam. A woman who marries maintains her chastity which is cardinal to the preservation of morals in Muslim society. In fact poverty spreads in regions where Zina is the norm. In western terminology there is no differentiation between sex between married and unmarried couples. Islam distinguishes the two and the won is strictly forbidden while the other is not only allowed but encouraged and rewarded. In the west today more than half the children born are out of wedlock. This creates so many social problems in society, not the least of which being the spread of HIV/AIDS. The prophet forewarned us of this in authentic Hadith: When Allah desires to destroy a nation he allows immorality to flourish therein. The prophet has also said that: "at the approach of the final hour/last days there would be the spread of incurable diseases." To date there is no way to reverse the HIV virus. we can merely keep it in check. Also the way HIV is spread in homosexual and immoral communities points to tha fact that it is a curse from the Almighty for the major sin of adultery.Today the Ummah is lax about concept of chastity, in this way we are now following the non-believers which was also predicted by rasullullah. It is time young people take the concept of Nikaah seriously and make sure their relationships with the opposite sex are conducted in a Halaal way. It is better for students who feel the need to be with a partner sexually to marry rather than conduct illicit affairs. The other alternative is to fast. But too often we delay marriage unnecessarily with fatal results. Look at the statistics of Muslim teenage unmarried pregnancies and judge for yourself. Unfortunately parents have to shoulder the bulk of the blame for this because of failure to instil Islamic values during the early stages of development. Also children should be spoken too about marriage in the years of puberty. Parents should make it easy for children to come to them with a request to marry. Unless there is a valid Shari reason such marriage should go ahead. In the time of the prophet girls got married young. Today thirteen year olds are engaged in sexual behaviour with "boyfriends" so why can they not rather get married and life a healthy Islamic life. They can still continue studying and parents should encourage this and help children out until they can be independent.

What is a GOOD FAMILY LIFE?

Almighty tests our resolve. However a good family life has at it's essence 2 people who come together for a common purpose and agree to share their lives together. They should love the same things or agree to find out about those things which interest the partner and vice versa. Marriage is the cornerstone upon which a good family life is based and this is so regardless of culture or religious background. The essence of a good family life is respect for and agreeing to respect the human differences between people of different backgrounds or even of similar backgrounds. You must be able to relate to each other and the essence of romance is sharing and caring and the love should grow rather than diminish throughout he years. There is mutual interdependence an the one does not feel complete without the other. However their should also be respect for ones own individual private space. Trust is part of a true good family life and the ability to forgive slights or other minor indiscretions on behalf of a partner. It is natural to feel possessive over ones loved one/s and even a little jealousy is okay as long as it doesn't overwhelm the relationship. each partner must have a little space which they can call their own. Interests will inevitably be shared and the more the partners spend leisure time enjoying each others company it is a recipe for a good life. And the love and romantic feelings will follow and grow, and like a flower will continue to bloom well into old age.

Matrimonial ideas and tips.

Marriage tip: Tips and Ideas what you can write about • Be truthful • Write in easy to understand language especially to those whose English is not their first language • Write from the heart • List your good qualities • Mention characteristics you are wanting to improve on (for example, “short temper if provoke”) • Don’t hide poor characteristic you are working on to improve • Do not be unreasonable with expectation from your partner because we are all unique individuals • Write about: - family and circle of friends - activities, social, sport, etc. without exaggeration - day-today life in your area and country - your city and national circumstances - places of high interests - seasonable differences and weather patterns - everyday’s things you can do for your partner without struggle - about what you can and you like to do for your partner on special occasions • ask what reciprocating things your partner would like to inform you of within ability. • Talk about outlook in life in social, economical, political and other issues. • Talk about expectation regarding maintaining or starting family.

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