Muslima from South Africa

South African Muslim woman:

Vision and ideas of South African Muslim woman about marriage and family life

And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves,
that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between
your hearts. Undoubtedly, in these are signs for those who reflect."
(Quran 30:21)

The attitude of South African Islamic woman and non-Islamic woman towards men in our country.

Every woman grows up with a dream in the back of her mind regarding her future.  We are all from different backgrounds whether negative or positive.

We first put our dream work in the back of our minds. Then we think of starting a family.  When we meet the man of our dreams we place all our trust in this man, fifty percent of the time we choose right and we get married to our knight on a white horse, and live till the day we die with this man, we have children, grand children and great grand children with this wonderful man.  we raise successful children who carries on and have successful families.

Then there is the odd oration when we trust the "conn-artist". 

When we as woman search for Mr.Right we look for certain qualities eg.:

A truly trustworthy and honest person. (With his words and actions)
Loving and caring.
A man that safeguard his Salaah, and love our Creator more than himself.
A man that can provide for his wife, thus he should have a stable career.
A man that truely treats his wife like a queen.
A man that sets an example to others whom we can be proud of.
We look for someone who makes us laugh inside and out.


When we as woman finally get married to our dream man we give our all to make this unity last forever.

But unfortunately there is men in South Africa regardless off age, race and income that doesn't treasure their wives and their feelings as they did before they united in marriage.

Woman in South Africa irrespective of age, race or income sector all face the same problems and many times falls into the same trap. 

Woman has been hurt physically, emotionally and verbally by their partners, some fall into depression for the rest of their lives they become so weak that they need to depend on other family members to take care of them.  Not all woman are like this,  some woman with strong faith in their creator overcome all difficulties in life.

Woman need to make time at least once a week to spend with other ladies, woman go out of their way to make the lives of their family members comfortable, but who helps those who are hidden away in a relationship that is tearing them up inside.

I will now give you some of my personal experience: read about personal experience of young south african lady who embraced Islam >

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